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Are beautiful women unapproachable, or are you just psyching yourself out? Are Beautiful Women Difficult To Approach? Can Average-Looking Guys Really Date Beautiful Women?

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The Dating Nerd is a shadowy figure whose whereabouts and identifying details remain unknown. What we do know is that he is really, really good at dating. He’s been on more dates than you can shake a lengthy bar tab at, and he’s here to help the average guy step his dating game up a notch — or several. The Question. Maybe this is shallow, but I don’t care. I’m kind of an average-looking dude. Maybe a bit ugly, but not drastically so. I've hooked up a few times in my life, and had some good relationships (only one longer than a year, but still), but now I'm 25 and I'm realizing that I've never dated a truly beautiful woman. At least once in my life, I want to sleep with someone beautiful. That's not crazy, right? The problem is, I have no idea how to do it. Usually I don’t even have the guts to approach them. I'm great at grinning at them awkwardly and then striking up an awesome conversation with one of my buddies or flirting hard with any girl who doesn't seem drastically out of my league, but at this point in my life, I just ask myself, What if I wasn't deathly afraid of beautiful women?" What do I do? Is it possible for a regular guy to date highly attractive people? The Answer. The answer is yes! Absolutely. Beautiful women are not unattainable. They’re even, like, kind of attainable. Yes, even for you. Especially if you listen closely to what I’m about to tell you. (I'll preface it with two disclaimers, however.) First, there are no guarantees here. If you want the magic spell that’ll make the world's most beautiful women fall in love with you, it doesn’t exist. All I’m going to do is give you some general pointers, and some advice about how to think about the situation. And if you don’t believe me when I say that there aren’t any surefire arcane secret techniques here, you can go to a pickup artist forum, learn a bunch of scripted conversational tricks, buy a weird feathered hat, and strike out with a bunch of random women at the mall for six months, and become even more frustrated and confused. Second, I want to address the question of shallowness. It would be easy for me to say, "Sam, you're a shallow idiot. You should date based on interpersonal chemistry, not looks." And to a degree, that's true. But I also know that telling people what they should be attracted to is almost always an exercise in futility. If dating a jaw-droppingly beautiful woman is something you crave, then it's something you crave, and pretending it isn't is only going to gnaw at you. Besides, you seem level-headed enough to recognize that beauty is just that — beauty. A beautiful woman is no more or less likely to make you happy in other regards than an average-looking one. If, at least once in your life, hooking up with one will set your mind at ease, then who am I to tell you that's a fool's errand? Likely, your happiest relationship will be with the person who makes you happiest, and that's something you can't fake, no matter what how anyone looks. Now, onto the substance of your question. The thing you need to realize is that beautiful women are people. Just like you, they worry about whether people like them, get lonely in the middle of the night, and occasionally take some weird poops. They don’t breathe a different kind of oxygen than you do. When they leave the bar, they don’t hop into a private jet that takes them to Mount Olympus. This may be obvious to you, but it's not to many of the men who rant about "beautiful women," so I'm dwelling on it, because I think it's important. The beautiful women you're conjuring up in your head aren't aliens, though a lot of guys seem to think they are. But if that's how you approach them, that’s not them, that’s you — that’s the weird stuff you put on them. For so many people, looking at truly beautiful people triggers some weird, deep, probably unhealthy intensity of feeling. It might be biological, or it might have something to do with seeing too many beautiful people every time we look at anything (televisions, movie screens, billboards, etc.) And, so, as a result, beautiful women have to deal with weird behavior all the time. They get envy from other women, frequently, and, from men, they get this unfortunate cocktail of uninvited affection and, often, arbitrary resentment. Everyone’s throwing feelings at them. Beautiful people hate this. Sure, it’s nice to be pretty, but it’s also very, very annoying. Because people behave erratically around you. Correspondingly, one of the most refreshing things you can encounter, if you’re very beautiful, is someone who just talks to you like, y’know, you’re a normal person. Someone who’ll chit-chat with you about random nonsense, and listen to what you’re saying, and make fun of you if you’re being stupid.













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